you know lately I have been a little conflicted with how I should date around. I used to think that dating is just a way to figure out what I liked but now that I am 20 and I don't truly have an idea of what I need to be looking for in a girl I don't know what to think. Lately I think that I have been abusing the girls in my life lately. I have mistreated them and I think the reason that I have is because I don't truly appreciate them because I haven't evaluated them and really figured out what they have going for them. I just like them because I like them and I don't ask why or what attributes they have that really make them who they are and create my attraction to them. That may be why I end up breaking up with them or end up not being happy at all. I don't know... so I am going to give something a shot that a good friend of mine suggested and I always say that I will make it and I don't. I am going to make a list of things that I look for in girls and then make sure that any girl that I date will have every attribute on that list. The first one I want to put on there is that they have to be a christian. This is because I am a christian and I don't think that I could share my feelings and life with someone that doesn't have the same set of beliefs as I do. I can tolerate girls that are not christians and I can be friends with non-christians but I don't think that I could share my life and feelings with someone that isn't.
So I have one on the list for today.
: Christian
well i think the first item you put on your list is the MOST important item.
ReplyDeleteand actually is the only item,really,that you should honestly not budge on.
i also agree.
this whole being 20..and ..dating..and trying to find ur soul mate thing is hard.
i just know and trust that God is going to bring me the right man in my life..and that i have to just focus on God and everything else will fall into place!